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Fat Chicks Slur - Do You Find This Offensive?

A new neighbor just moved into our apt. complex, and his car is in the first parking space, so I see it the first thing I leave my house. He has this license plate holder that says, "Where there is a fat chick, I will climb it." I find that incredibly offensive and akin to homophobic and racist comments. The hell he will be "climbing" this fat chick and do not be dehumanizing me by calling me an "it!"
A new neighbor just moved into our apt. complex, and his car is in the first parking space, so I see it the first thing I leave my house. He has this license plate holder that says, "Where there is a fat chick, I will climb it." I find that incredibly offensive and akin to homophobic and racist comments. The hell he will be "climbing" this fat chick!

I think this is offensive not only to fat chicks, but to all women! First of all, fat chicks are not an "it," or inanimate object. They are human beings. Secondly, this implies every fat chick is desperate enough for the implied sex to let this loser "climb" her. This dude will be fucked up if he tries to "climb" me, and no, I do not want him NEAR me, much less ON me! What is the purpose of something like this? Does he think saying this about fat chicks makes him look studly? Of course, he is a fat, balding, middle aged guy who is bland-looking...and he is talking about fat chicks? He needs to climb on himself, not fat chicks.

It pisses me off that men think they can just go around sexualizing fat women like this. Because that is implied in the "I will climb it" part. It is implied he will climb her to fuck her, is how I feel it. It feels like he is violating all fat women by just claiming he will have his way with them...doing what he wants, as if we have no say in the matter, swooning to his amazingly bland and mediocre looks...ick.

I have not even talked to this neighbor yet. But this is what I see on his car. It would be akin to seeing a racial or homophobic slur on his car. I will never like him or even want to connect with him seeing that on his car. But I am glad it is there, to warm women. Any woman seeing that should be running the other way fast. Yet I think his purpose in putting that there was for the opposite effect? What IS the purpose of something like that? It makes me as a fat chick feel PISSED OFF, DEGRADED, SUBJUGATED, MINIMALIZED, DEHUMANIZED...what the hell is the purpose of something like that on your car? And this guy is a fire fighter in Southern CA. So, how does he treat fat chicks he rescues? Does he "climb" them? This is so unacceptable to me, but as I said, I am glad the pig is displaying it right out there where everyone can see it. Does anyone else find this offensive? What is the purpose of something like this? Do people understand it will make fat women feel icky and weird and bad? WTH is all I can say. Did he get rejected by a fat woman and so this is how he acts it out? WTH and ICK.

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Detachment and Awareness 08.Dec.2014 16:22

Serenity Prayer

First off, it seems like you are easily hurt by words. Try do not get so worked up over something so stupid.

Second...look at the license plate holder more carefully. Someone (most likely not the owner) stuck some masking tape over the word "mountain" and wrote "fat chick". I am sure the owner would appreciate you telling him kindly that someone is pulling a prank on him. It is akin to putting a "kick me" sign on a persons back.

just do it 11.Dec.2014 23:17

solidarity = love

tear the sticker off - or use a sharpie to cover up the words